By adopting a child and helping them reach their potential, they help us
reach ours. An adopted child is not an unwanted child; to the contrary.
They are a child who was searched for, prayed for, cried for, begged
for; received by arms that ached, making empty hearts full. Love is meant to be shared." - Author unknown

Thursday, October 30, 2008

More Paperwork.......An Exercise in Futility?


Well, we were down to the wire on our I-171H. Should we re-new it or not? After some thought, we decided that we might as well, since we get a one-time free renewal. So we made it in the nick of time. Just before it expired! Now we get to go to Detroit again to be fingerprinted on November 6th. Hopefully our new I-171H won't expire before we get to finish this adoption.

Friday, October 17, 2008

Faith



I do not know the reason, or even begin to understand the whys. But I do know that I have put my trust in the Lord and whatever HE has planned for our family, I will accept.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

A New Day......A New Disappointment


Today, it became 'official' that the US Dept. of State and the Dept. of International Adoptions in Vietnam have decided that there will be no Special Needs adoptions processed after September 1st. So the country of Vietnam is now completely CLOSED for international adoptions to the United States until an agreement can be reached between the two countries.

Where does this leave us? At the head of the line as the doors slam shut in our faces. I do not know what to think or what to feel. I am angry because I thought that our government was on our side, that they were working for us. We elected them, we pay their exorbitant salaries. Silly me.

As more and more obstacles are thrown in my path, I become more determined than ever that someday, somehow, I WILL bring our child home from Vietnam.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Waiting.......

I talked to our agency again and they are beginning to get Special Needs children for placement. I told Dick that I wanted to change our preference from Girl to Boy. He laughed and said that what I was requesting was very rare. Most families switched from boy to girl! He said that boys are far more plentiful than girls so we should have no problem getting a referral! I again told him that we would like a child as young as possible. And then I added that we were approved for two children, so twins would be nice. We got a huge chuckle out of that. LOL I just want to hold a baby again. Dick said that we should hear something positive in the next few weeks!!!!!!!

I pray that we hear something soon. I would love to show Jon's grandfather a picture of his great grandson before he passes. It is still in GOD'S hands.